“If you teach women they are looking after their family”. I remember this wording which I read long ago. Make senses, not that the articles said all men are arssholes rather teach woman is more effective in terms of caring their family; provide food and shelter and clean environment etc.. personally I am passionate about womens' education. Especially remote area where girls are second rated citizen, education means liberation. They can improve their own life also others around them. research shows that more women educated; decrease infant mortality rate, effective birth control and increase nations GDP. Instead give people a fish teach them how to catch fishes is much more better way of giving things. Yes there are lots of organizations ripping systems off name of charity. But lots of good ones around. Giving is an act of loving I think. I have been thinking in Individual Korean for an example, we are not really giving. Giving other people matter of attitude and compassion. Compared to western nations, Korean are not having that kind of cool attitude, their soul size are not grow same speed as their bank balance, not many Korean people have the sense of common good either. I met a Korean recently; she was hard as a nail, unbelievably cold and sourer as an Antarctica old ice hog-hag, cynics and bitter in her hard life to survival in Australia. Her life all revolved around her only daughter. She says she had never experience of “real passionate love” I wondered what made her life so bitter and unlovable, she can not love other people in return no one loves her! That is scary thing!
Thank you for Young Sun question and to her answering how to love. I hope this directional love guide to give the Korean lady the right direction for how to love. Cool
