Sunday, October 11, 2009
Korean Single Mothers
Bastard! You bastard! One of horrible insult in Korea! People’s belief is so powerful, certain things are never change whether you sleep “ondol” to golden candelas. Korean economy from ‘no economy’ to GDP of $US20, 000, this ‘Korean single mothers’ just come to public attention. Least a starting point. This terrible trillion of poisonous thinking poking out and into the light and see whether they can stop to beg other counties to adopt Korean children. Well what is so difference beggars are begging for a quid or begging other counties adopt your own children to bring them up! That is a stigma, Korean should know begging is stigma! Misery of centuries centuries, unwed mothers were deadly crime. Condemnation of the unwed mothers were noble deed. The eternal tyranny of the culture hypocrisy was. There is no Korean history as such thing as “single mother!’ “bastard” one of biggest insulting along with a ‘butcher’ they are outcast of the society, bottom of pit. They have no opportunity at all. In my home town they were born bastards and they die with their stigma to their grave. They even didn’t have a right to have elect a grave stone in their burial. It was morbidly unkind cruelest curses on their own kind. You don’t associate with them. Having bastard not a personal shame only but whole family and clan. The ridiculous thing is that the Korean beggary of other countries to adopt their children was not stigma but “single mothers” was. Ok the during or just after Korean war that was acceptable because no way the children survive in that traitorous circumstance but last few decades Korean should stop beggaring on other countries to bring its own children up. Packaged them up ‘ made in Korea” shipped them off, cleared the their hands, no more shame but the facts are gone away aren’t they, as they are not consumable good, they are human being, fresh blood! Everything change, must change, even good things are changed into the another forms and bad things change completely different form, without open mind the change never come. So Korean single women they can have a choice, if they want to keep their child then that is Ok if they can afford. Korean should change their belief of “single mother” as a part of our progress NOT as shame but a blessing.